Go to the bank

But I did say I would go for him. He puts his banking in a sealed envelope only for himself and the teller to view. In our relationship banking falls in the money category obviously so it is off…

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You Had To Grow Up Before You Were Ready

You were a parent before you were done being a child.

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You were grown up well before your age demanded it.

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You had to step up.

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Your elders did not.

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And you are still stepping up, to this day.

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Always available to your parents, your siblings, your friends, to EVERYONE.

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And yet, no one is there for you when you need it.

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Mostly because you do not trust anyone to be there and also, because you have treated everyone as weak and needing of your help for so long now, that they do not even know how to step up and be adults.

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They always lean in on you.

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It is time to let this role go.

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I know you believe the world will end, if you do not do everything that you do but it is not true.

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Yes, it will be awkward and downright difficult for some of the people in your life who are used to you stepping in and saving the day for them, but they are all powerful in their own right, regardless of what you mistakenly led them to believe.

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No blame, my love.

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Just truth.

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It is time to forgive your parents/elders for not being the powerful people they could have been. Yes, they did the best they knew how, based on their own wounds, but it was not enough for you.

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And it is okay to admit that.

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It is okay to admit they let you down.

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It is okay to grieve for your lost childhood.

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It is okay to start now to re-parent yourself.

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It is okay to withdraw from the demands of everyone in your life and heal.

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